Daily reflection _ unanticipated circumstances

UNANTICIPATED CIRCUMSTANCES
Do you suspect that some of your detours have been mysteriously and providentially arranged?
Deacon John Ruscheinsky
A detour is one of the most unpleasant surprises a traveler can encounter. In addition to being a nuisance, it can be a serious inconvenience. During one of my trips to Walla Walla, suddenly on highway 12 there was a detour took me out of my way about 10 miles. Immediately the blood pressure is boiling, you have a death grip on the steering wheel. Maybe you have experienced this before?
Detours can be more than highway inconveniences. Life's detours often necessitate major adjustments and we must find a way to accept what we cannot change. Some detours have far reaching consequences, and actually redirect our lives. But detours may also be matters of choice, because they are found to be unanticipated opportunities for service and love.
There is not a road through life that does not have a detour on it somewhere. This is one of life's frustrating realities, and every person should know it. Unavoidable changes come to us all. Some are causes for celebration, of course. Others, however, are not, and range from slightly disturbing to unspeakable pain in you know what!
A visit to the doctor may produce test results that permanently transform a person's lifestyle. A fork-in-the-road decision by a young person may alter a whole family's entire future. In such experiences we pray for serenity to accept what must be endured because it cannot be changed. Unanticipated circumstances eventually require all of us to revise our itineraries. Even Jesus found this to be true.
In Mark's Gospel, Jesus is on the move. He is going from his home region of Galilee northward to the coastal plain in Syria on the Mediterranean Sea. Tyre and Sidon was Gentile country. Jesus was probably trying to distance himself temporarily from the people who were crowding around him and the Jewish officials who found him such a threat. What He may have intended as a journey to peaceful seclusion turned out to have some unexpected detours.
Whatever His personal agenda was in the region of Tyre and Sidon, Jesus was sidetracked first by a Gentle woman with an afflicted child and later by a man, who was deaf. Some people would continue to block Jesus' path throughout his ministry. In an individual's life a detour sometimes becomes a primary road. What begins, as an alternative route to one destination may become an entirely new direction, leading to a different destination altogether. What have been the significant detours on your journey, the experiences that have set your life on a new and different course? Do you suspect that some of your detours have been mysteriously and providentially arranged?
Changes in direction fall into two categories. First, there are those changes over which we have little or no control. We've been considering some of these. Second, there are those changes that result from conscious decision we make. Most of the detours in Jesus life were choices he made. In the needy lives Jesus encountered everywhere, he heard the call of God and knew his mission.
Sometimes God calls us to choose a detour, or invites us to make a conscious change of direction. God honors our freedom, however, and these will always be our decisions, our free choices---for better or for worse.
On the maps of this world, things are not always as they seem.